By Don Allsman and Rickie Bradshaw, Reconciliation Fellowship
“Forgetting What’s Behind” or “Remembrance that Gives Hope?”
You may have heard objections to Black History Month: “All that was in the past. Why can’t we move to the present? We dealt with all that racial stuff in the ’60s. The Bible says we should forget what is behind and press into what is ahead.”
But the Bible is full of admonitions for us the remember the past because it encourages us with hope for the future. Romans 15:4 says: “For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.”
This disagreement over the importance of history is one of the primary barriers that prevents us from achieving ethnic reconciliation. And it originates in a cultural difference in how we process events. Blacks and Anglos can watch the same news story and have completely different interpretations about what happened.
In general, White people interpret events situationally and individually. For example, consider this Symbol as an event in your life:
You analyze it as a separate symbol, take it apart, interpreting what it means as a stand-alone, individual symbol. So if your car gets stolen, you look at that event as an isolated event, trying to figure out the circumstances that happened surrounding the particular theft. Did I leave the keys in the car? Who could have stolen it?
Consider Rayshard Brooks, who was shot by police in a Wendy’s parking lot last year. Anglos look at his situation individually and ask questions like: Why did he run from the police? Why were the police after him to begin with? Did he have previous history with the police?
On the other hand, African Americans generally interpret events historically and collectively. Each event is part of a long history over 400 years. Each event that occurs is added to an existing Cube, in a larger collective pattern.
Each event is a point in the Cube, a link in a continuous chain that forms an overall concept of mistreatment over a long period of time (past and present). Rayshard Brooks’ case may have had extenuating circumstances, but that is not the point. His shooting is one of many events that started with slavery, continued with Jim Crow lynchings, extended in daily humiliations since Civil Rights, and persists today in daily life.
The Cube explains in part why African Americans take each egregious event personally. In other words, what happens to another Black person also effects me. So when George Floyd is murdered, Black people feel “that could have been my father or uncle or cousin.” When Ahmad Arbery is chased down and killed, Black mothers fear for their own sons.
Since Black people feel the pain personally whenever other Blacks are mistreated, they feel grief every time a new report comes out. This is made worse when White people dismiss it or explain it away using The Symbol. When Anglos say, “She was partially responsible for what happened to her,” it may be true, but by doing so they communicate a disregard for the pain and humiliation Black people feel and have felt for generations.
This is why many African Americans suffer from Race-Based Traumatic Stress (RBTS), which is the injury resulting from humiliation, discrimination, or violence. Anyone who has had a traumatizing experience due to their ethnicity will likely have those wounds re-opened when they see another person of color experiencing trauma. Every new report in the news can bring up old feelings of pain.
So if we want to make strides toward reconciliation, it is important for Anglos to invest the time to understand 400 years of RBTS in America (The Cube), as painful as it is to do so. The best way to understand Black history is to find a trusted friend who will tell you their story; the history of his/her family going back generations.
As you do, resist the urge to discount each story as isolated events (The Symbol). Listen and learn with The Cube in mind. Let Black History Month be a tool God can use to reconcile us through mutual understanding, so we can get to work on the Great Commission together.
If you are a person of color, be patient with your Anglo siblings, understanding that their dismissal of your experience may not be because of privilege, fragility, or supremacy, but simply a difference in how events are processed conceptually.
Reconciliation Fellowship is a national group of people following Jesus who want to lead the way in bringing ethnic reconciliation in America. We gather on Zoom every three months and also commit to informal small group meetings of 2-4 people to build relationships in between Zoom meetings. Find out more at https://www.completion.global/get-involved.
This article is submitted by Don Allsman of Completion Global. Completion Global is a Missio Nexus member. Member organizations can provide content to the Missio Nexus website. See how by clicking here.