Resources

Thriving in Cross-Cultural Ministry
Installment 26: Resources
This is the last of the series of articles in this Thriving in Cross-Cultural Ministry Series.
Books, blogs, courses, and podcasts for further study
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– Proverbs 4:7
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– John Wesley
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I have read every book on this list (except the picture books, which were recommended by a trusted mom of young children). Podcasts I have listened to enough to support them. (I am more of a reader than a listener.) There are myriad other resources, many quite good, but as I have not read or listened to them, I will not recommend them.
Moving to a new does country not require a PhD., but does require the desire to learn and study. You will find different resources helpful at different times, but please do not think that I recommend you read them all. I quote very few of these because the information is common and aligned with what I had already written, only the packaging differs.
The ones I most recommend are followed by an asterisk (*), and I noted those specific to marriage or parenting, which may not be obvious from the titles.
Bibliography
Allberry, Sam, 7 Myths About Singleness. Crossway, 2019.
Alma, Carissa, Thriving in Cross-Cultural Ministry. Pavilion Books, 2011.*
Bradley, Zach, et al., Receiving Sent Ones During Reentry: The Challenges of Returning “Home” and How Churches Can Help. The Upstream Collective, 2017.
Bucknam, Robert and Ezzo, Gary, On Becoming Babywise: Giving Your Infant the Gift of Nighttime Sleep. Parent-Wise Solutions, Inc., 2020. (Parenting)
Chandler, Lauren, Goodbye to Goodbyes (Tales That Tell the Truth). The Good Book Company, 2019. (Picture Book)
Chaplin, Melissa, Returning Well: Your Guide to Thriving Back “Home” after Serving Cross-Culturally. Newton Publishers, 2015.
Coleman, Robert E., The Master Plan of Evangelism. Revellbooks, 2010.
Corbett, Steve and Brian Fikkert, When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor…and Yourself. Moody Publishers, 2014.
Corbett, Steve, Brian Fikkert, and Katie Casselberry, Helping Without Hurting in Church Benevolence: A Practical Guide to Walking with Low-Income People. Moody Publishers, 2014. *
Dobson, James C., The Dr. James Dobson Parenting Collection (Includes The New Dare to Discipline, The New Strong-Willed Child, and Parenting Isn’t for Cowards).Tyndale Momentum, 2011. (Parenting) *
Doerrfeld, Cori, The Rabbit Listened. Dial Books, 2018. (Picture Book)
Druckerman, Pamela, Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting. Penguin Books, 2014. (See important caveat in the Parenting chapter.)
Eggerichs, Dr. Emerson, Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs. Thomas Nelson, 2004. (Mariage) *
Eenigenburg, Sue and Eva Burkholder, Grit to Stay Grace to Go: Staying Well in Cross-Cultural Ministry. William Carey Publishing, 2023.
Ernvik, Ulrika, Third Culture Kids: A Gift to Care For. Familjagladje, 2019. (Parenting)
Frazier, David, Mission Smart: 15 Critical Questions To Ask Before Launching Overseas. CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 2013.*
Grudem, Wayne, Systematic Theology, Second Edition: An Introduction to Biblical Doctrine. Zondervan Academic, 2020. *
Hale, Thomas, On Being a Missionary (Abridged):An Introduction to Cross-Cultural Life and Ministry. William Carey Library Publishers, 2012.
Haidt, Jonathan, The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness. Penguin Press, 2024. (Parenting)
Harakal, David, Parenting Through the Ranks: How to Raise Successful Scouts. Falcon Guides, 2024. (Parenting) (I imagine I should recommend my own book. Though written for Scouts, the information is good for any parent.) *
Henderson, John, Catching Foxes: A Gospel-Guided Journey to Marriage. P&R Publishing, 2018. (Marriage)
Johnson, Helen and Christine Schelhas-Miller, Don’t Tell Me What to Do, Just Send Money: The Essential Parenting Guide to the College Years. Golden Guides from St. Martin’s Press, 2011. (Parenting)
Kruger, Michael J., Bully Pulpit: Confronting the Problem of Spiritual Abuse in the Church. Zondervan, 2022.
Lanier, Sarah, Foreign to Familiar, 2nd Edition: A Guide to Understanding Hot- And Cold-Climate Cultures. McDougal Publishing Company, 2022. *
Lantz, Matt, A Method for Dating: Because dating happens … and it doesn’t have to be horrible. (thedatingblook.wordpress.com)
McKie, Rusty, Sabbaticals: “How-To” Take a Break from Ministry before Ministry Breaks You. Sojourn Network, 2018.
McNabb, Dr. Bob, Spiritual Multiplication in the Real World: Why Some Disciple-Makers Reproduce when Others Fail. Multiplication Press, 2013.
Medina, Meg and Sonia Sanchez, Evelyn Del Rey Is Moving Away. Candlewick, 2023. (Picture Book)
Piper, John, Let the Nations Be Glad!: The Supremacy of God in Missions. Baker Academic, 2022.
Pollock, David, Ruth E. Van Reken, et al., Third Culture Kids 3rd Edition: Growing Up Among Worlds. Nicholas Brealey, 2017. (Parenting)
Reid, Dr. Alvin L. and Malcolm McDow, et al., Firefall 2.0: How God Has Shaped History Through Revivals. CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 2014.
Reju, Deepak, Pornography: Fighting for Purity (31-Day Devotionals for Life). P&R Publishing, 2018.
Reju, Deepak and Jonathan Holmes, Rescue Plan: Charting a Course to Restore Prisoners of Pornography. P&R Publishing, 2021.
Reju, Deepak and Jonathan Holmes, Rescue Skills: Essential Skills for Restoring the Sexually Broken. P&R Publishing, 2021.
Renée, Marci and Layken Davey, The Boy of Many Colors (Pierre’s World Traveling Adventures). The Cultural Story-Weaver, 2021. (Picture Book)
Ripkin, Nik, The Insanity of God: A True Story of Faith Resurrected. B&H Books, 2014.
Rubio, Sarah Parker and Fátima Anaya, Far from Home: A Story of Loss, Refuge, and Hope. Tyndale Kids, 2019. (Picture Book)
Saunders, Sara, Swirly. Review & Herald Publishing Association, 2012. (Picture Book)
Seeker, Meg, Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father Should Know. Regnery, 2017. (Parenting) *
Shadrach, Steve and Scott Morton, The God Ask: A Fresh, Biblical Approach to Personal Support Raising. CMM Press, 2013.
Shaw, Joey, All Authority: How the Authority of Jesus Upholds the Great Commission. B&H Publishing Group, 2016.
Shrier, Abigail, Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren’t Growing Up. Sentinel, 2024. (Parenting)
Taylor, Dr. And Mrs. Howard, Hudson Taylor’s Spiritual Secret. Moody Publishers, 2009. *
Tripp, Paul David, Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family. Crossway, 2024. (Parenting) *
Wells, Lauren, Raising Up a Generation of Healthy Third Culture Kids: A Practical Guide to Preventive Care. Independently Published, 2020. (Parenting)
Wells, Lauren, The Grief Tower: A Practical Guide to Processing Grief with Third Culture Kids. Independently Published, 2021. (Parenting)
Weyeneth, Sandy, Writing Exceptional Missionary Newsletters: Essentials for Writing, Producing, and Sending Newsletters that Motivate Readers. William Carey Library, 2013.
Winter, Ralph D. and Steven C. Hawthorne, Perspectives on the World Christian Movement: A Reader.William Carey Library Publishers, 2009.
Young, Amy, Getting Started: Making the Most of Your First Year in Cross-Cultural Service. Independently Published, 2019.
Young, Amy, Looming Transitions: Starting and Finishing Well in Cross-Cultural Service. CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 2021.
Young, Amy, Enjoying Newsletters: How to Write Christian Communications People Want to Read. Independently Published, 2019.
Zerub, Caleb, Nations Prep Handbook. Independently Published, 2022.
Podcasts/Websites
Dumaplin, Cara, takingcarababies.com (Parenting—infant sleep training)
Sanctuary Inn, The Innkeepers
Grudem, Wayne, Systematic Theology
Antioch Waco, Resiliency
Courses/Programs
Debriefing—LeRucher.org (for individual and family)
Marriage—Re|engage—reengage.org
Marriage—A Weekend to Remember (U.S.)—familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/
Parenting—Getting to the Heart of Parenting—store.paultripp.com/collections/getting-to-the-heart-of-parenting
Parenting—Christ-Centered Parenting by Russell D. Moore and Phillip Bethancourt (Amazon)
Parenting—www.tcktraining.com/for-parents
Finance and Investments—Ramsey, Dave, “Financial Peace University,” www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/financial-peace
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